Today I want to talk about a day game strategy that I use with phenomenal success.

This is an attraction and comfort building method that you can use all the time to bring women into your life, and is amazing for meeting beautiful women and creating almost instant dates…with little chance of flaking.

Let’s call this the “Coffee shop - Art Show” quickstep routine.

And it is all about leading, which requires having a plan. An agenda. And providing adventures that are unique and memorable to her. Best of all this whole act is CHEAP. Practically free. When I do this, the only expenses are usually a cup of coffee at the coffee shop.

This tactic works best on Thursdays.

This is because most galleries will have the premier opening for their new show on a Thursday. Sometimes it is Friday. But very often it is Thursday that they have the “premier- meet the artist” style opening.

Assuming that you live in a city with over a few thousand people in it, you most likely have at least a handful of art galleries, as well as some sort of free publication with a calendar that says when the galleries are having opening receptions.

You should be paying close attention to these magazines or newspapers because they will provide you with a constant stream of events that you can stay knowledgeable of so that you will always be able to arrange a date on the spot, because you already have plans.

This is bringing the girl into your reality. It is leading her. Letting her tag along.

So if you know of at least one of these art openings, you can already “have a plan” for what you’re doing later that evening.  This makes it super easy to create same day hookups when you approach girls at the café. Or wherever.

I like to go for a coffee shop with a patio. You can do this at any day game type venue or subway car or whatever.

Basically, you approach the girl in the afternoon and chat her up as you would anywhere else.  As in all day game scenarios, her defenses are down, she is most likely alone, and extremely receptive to a cool guy like you who would like to meet her.

Don’t be fooled by the book or laptop computer.

If she were against the idea of being approached by a guy she would be studying at home.  This used to throw me off a lot.  I would use that as an excuse: “Oh I can’t go talk to her, she’s working on something.”…BULLSHIT.  She is studying at a public venue because like all humans, she craves social interaction and has ulterior motives.  She would be in a library or at home if she were desperately focused on her schoolwork or whatever.  You can approach girls at libraries too!  They want to meet interesting new people and are putting themselves on display out at a trendy café because they hope to attract a cool guy.

I like to use an opener like:

“Hi!  Mind if I interrupt your diligent studies?  I saw you looking all scholarly and adorable and thought perhaps you need to be distracted for a moment…”

If shes studying, I’ll then have her “teach me something”.  This gets the conversation rolling to a natural flow.  From there I just talk to her like any normal human being.  When I see that things are clearly going well, I will tell her that she should join me in just a few hours to an art show.  This sounds exciting and fun to her so she almost always agrees.  She gets dressed up all proper and lovely and I do as well.  We then drink for free for two hours and build a connection.

Having this type of plan also makes it a lot easier to get the number.

Rather than having to just say “let me get your number”, you can say something like:

“You’re kinda magical…I think I like your style. Check it out, I was going to drop by the XY&Z Gallery around 7:30 for the XY&Z opening. (mention what the show is called and what it may be about or whatever) And you need to come with me. We need to go get our culture on so we can be refined young hipsters. Gimmee your number and ill call you around 7. You know where this place is right? Its over on (yadda yadda and dirka dirka street)…Sweet, I’ve got to go run a few errands beforehand, but I’ll see you then. Cheers.”

Sometimes I like to throw in an overly dashing kiss of the hand.

Notice how I invite her to something that I was going to do anyway, rather than “asking her out on a date”. I say all of this with the internal belief and assumption that of course she wants to go to an art opening with me. It wouldn’t occur to me that she would not want to go do something fairly exciting with me.

Girls love art, but rarely go to art shows. This is because they usually don’t have friends who are into that sort of thing. And when guys ask them out, it is usually to have dinner or drinks or some standard prototypical nonsense like that. Women romanticize art, galleries and art openings, yet rarely get the opportunity to go to these events.

And guess what? Now you are going out with her on a memorable date that involves absolutely no supplication, provides plenty of conversational material, a stage for you to present your personality, and FREE WINE.  Art is emotional, passionate, and a hardcore aphrodisiac for women.

That’s right. You can get giggly drunk for FREE at art openings. You can drink the same amount of wine that would cost you over 40 bucks anywhere else- for absolutely nothing.

There is almost NEVER any kind of cover charge to get in. There is often music and lots of pretty people. And it is very standard for them to provide free glasses of wine and catered food.

So here you are standing out of the crowd by giving her a unique and posh experience that builds a lot of comfort and allows you two to stroll around, talking, drinking, and getting to know one another. Touching, flirting, teasing, role playing and kino escalating, of course. NICE.

Most of the time, these things are over by 9pm, so it will usually be only natural that you two will choose to continue the adventure over at a lounge, bar, or whatever.

You just met this girl like 4 hours ago. There was, say a 2 hour time bridge in between the initial meet and the re-meet for the gallery show, so you have really only been together for around 2 hours. Yet, you already have built massive attraction and rapport, she thinks you’re unique and interesting, and you have changed venues 3 times, and changed outfits too.

You create the illusion that you two have spent a lot more time with one another than you have.

You have also, without spending a dime, have managed to project that you are a classy, sophisticated and fun guy. If you have been kino escalating, and displaying your natural personality, you should easily be kissing the girl by 9:30.

This plan is amazing because it is a cool instant date that is outside the box of normal “hey we should get a drink sometime”. There is very little chance that she will flake.
I have never had a flake doing this. I have also never done this and not had it lead to sweet-magic-glory. You are leading the whole time. Just having fun.
Just being yourself.

As an inevitable result, she will be relaxed and have fun.

She will get to know you. There are no distractions. You don’t have to deal with her friends. There are no AMOG players at art shows who are going to try to steal your woman. This is a great way to spend a concentrated few hours with a woman, show her a good time, and create a history together.

Cool thing is that these free papers with the gallery listings are usually AT the coffee shop. It is best if you check it out earlier in the week and have an agenda. There is something going on every week that you can do.

Knowing what the plan is drastically increases the effectiveness of getting her out.

Take a minute to Google the artist. See what’s going on. These local papers are a plethora of second date or instant date opportunities if you just know what’s going on and invite beautiful women to join you.